What You Have to Give Up

What You Have to Give Up

Do you know what it takes to get to where you want to go?  Do you understand what’s at stake?  Do you truly get what you need to give up if you’re going to make your dreams come true—dreams that are too impossibly big you’re too embarrassed...
Why I Quit Facebook for Good

Why I Quit Facebook for Good

Somewhere on the internet, a wise man in the guise of a random anonymous commenter on a random blog post said, “We grow up to become who we were when we were young.”I was a different person when I was young. First of all, I did not give a fuck. I did not...
Stop Making a Big Deal Out It

Stop Making a Big Deal Out It

I had to take a swab test before surgery. To be honest, I was anxious about it. Everywhere I turn, I hear people telling stories about how much it hurts. I see Hollywood celebrities wiping off tears in a corner because of the pain. I hear people telling me they almost...
How to Bend the Rules of Life

How to Bend the Rules of Life

Someone told me, “You don’t have to like the game but you have to learn to play by the rules and bend them slightly.” It floored me slightly. Someone finally understood what I’ve been doing my entire life, and they’ve been able to put it in a few words while I’m the...
How to Be Truly Confident

How to Be Truly Confident

A friend and I were talking about confidence earlier. How do you become more confident? Do you snap your fingers just like that and all of sudden become more confident? Or do you need to take years and years of diving deep and healing and owning your shit before you...